Your behavior makes you perfect human being…..
Yes your behavior makes you perfect HUMAN BEING. A perfect human being is nothing but a person with impactable behavior. Your behavior shows how the actually you are. How you treat your friends, family members, elder ones. Everyone treats you according to your behavior. If your behavior is not acceptable for people then they will not accept you as well.
· Following sentences describe you need to change your behavior :-
1. People treat you differently than you expected
2. You try to convince your friends but you can’t convince them.
3. You care so much but nobody cares about you.
4. People insult you in front of you.
5. If an accident happens on the road, you leave without help.
6. You are not interested in interacting with new people.
7. You end the conversation without a handshake.
8. You wait for people first they should talk with you.
9. You don’t care what is happening in your country.
· People treat you differently than you expected
Many times you can’t get from the people what you are expecting from them and at the end you get disappointed. They ignore you everytime, they don’t want you to take part in their conversation. This kind of situation shows you have to change some factors in behavior. First of all you have to lower your expectations from them. This is the first thing you have to do anyway. Once you start expecting less from the people then you don’t feel the difference you feel usually. So start from expecting less.
After that choose people wisely to talk and start conversation with sweet smile. Once your conversation starts you have to praise them for their dress sense, hair style, watch etc. they start talking with you more. Everytime you have to praise them for such new things they have. Once you adopt this habit people will treat you in good manner.
· You try to convince your friend but you cant convince them.
You try to convince your friends for birthday parties, tours, nightouts, and etc. but your friends not willing to go with your plans. They always ignore you when you try to convince them for such things. It shows either you don’t give respect to them or it is fault of your behavior.
The solution is you have to give respect to everyone. Sometimes unknowingly you hurt them, insult them or sometime you shows you are not interested in their plan. You have to ask your friends about such things. Say sorry to them. Definitely they will listen to your plans.
· You care so much but nobody cares about you.
You care for everyone but nobody cares about you. In this case everytime not your fault sometimes persons mentality matters lot, so don’t get disappointed. If they don’t care about you just forget it and don’t think to much about it. You care for everyone this is your goodness. So don’t expect from anyone care for care.
· People insult you in front of you.
This is the common question most of my subscribers ask me how to deal with it. So here comes the solution according to me.
If you think carefully about this situation most of people who insult you are the same who can’t do better than you. This is the only way for them to beat you. But don’t worry this tact definitely work for you. If you are talking with someone and somebody insult just ignore them don’t answer back to them. Like once you start ignoring them automatically they stop insulting you. So keep this in your mind “just ignore them”
· If an accident happens on the road, you leave without help.
This is bad sign for human being. You have to change it early as possible. If some bad things happen near you then just go and help. Even after knowing you sit as it is then you have to change your behavior.
Don’t just sit go and help, because helping someone is most satisfying thing in the world. So be the helping personality, it will make you perfect human being.
· You are not interested in interacting with people.
If you only available on social media and not in interacting with people then you are on wrong track. Social presence is only boosting you in terms of likes and comments but no one knows you personally, how actually you are, what is your likes and dislikes, what things you love to do etc.
Once you start interacting with people they will know more about you, they will know you personally, they will know your actual likes and dislikes so go and interact with people. It will help you to be a perfect human being.
· You end the conversation without a handshake.
When you are having a conversation with people you have to speak with your hands more than your mouth. Same when you are ending a good conversation you have to handshake with them it shows you had great conversation with them and you are interested to talk with them in future. It also shows you are caring as well as cherish human being.
So keep in mind start the conversation with handshake and same end the conversation with handshake. And one thing is very important to remember give short handshake to your opposite gender and full handshake to same gender. It shows you giving respect to them.
· You wait for the people first they should talk with you
If you really wait for people first they should talk with you then you have to admit one thing you are arrogant personality, you give first priority to your ego than any person. It is sad but true thing.
You should change this behavior early as possible. Otherwise no one will talk with you, no one will care for you, and people will start ignoring you. So change this behavior go and talk with people. There is no necessary whether you are talking first or they are.
· You don’t care what is happening your country
Many people behave like they are not part of their country they really don’t care what is happening in their country. I want to just one thing to you admit it country means you and you means country. If anything happen in your country definitely it will affect you as well whether it is good thing or bad.
Be aware about what happen in your country. Support what is right and protest against wrong. The person who is truly cares about his country is PERFECT HUMAN BEING.
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PUBLISHED BY: – INDRA.R.NISHAD